The history of the wedding is like her, a circle without beginning and without end. It is practically impossible to say when and how the first wedding came about. The ring that we know today as a wedding ring, or more sophisticated than the one offered by the man as a betrothal of the lover, has undergone all kinds of changes over the centuries. We will try to go through the magazine just a few, without having the pretense of saying everything.
As in the Christian wedding, it became a natural thing, an important object that we still need during the religious ceremony of the Holy Union, there are churches that condemn the wearing of this jewel.
Men who refuse to wear the ring, or remove it as soon as they leave for a romantic getaway, have nothing in common with the perceptions of these religious dogmas. That is why we will not approach them now.
The first rings appeared in ancient Egypt, used as a seal, a symbol of power and authority. In chapters 41 and 42 of Genesis we find the following mention: 'Pharaoh took his ring from his finger and put it in Joseph's finger.' Later, the rich women of Egypt began to wear gold rings on all fingers. The poems were copied by the women in the poor blanket of the company. They used materials such as silver, bronze, glass or clay, covered with a silicon glaze colored in blue or green.
The Romans wore a long time only iron rings. After 31 BC, gold rings appeared, but they were used only by nobles: ambassadors, senators, consuls and the official head of state. There were also a series of laws regulating the wearing of rings.
Over time, the ring became mandatory to "bind" a person to his social class. Later, the engagement ring also appeared. The first ones who used this jewel were the Romanians. At the engagement ceremony, the fiancee gave a simple iron ring to the bride's family as a symbol of the engagement.
Initially, the engagement ceremony was more important than the marriage ceremony, which only came to fulfill the first commitment. The first Christian engagement ring was found in the catacombs of Rome, was not of gold, due to biblical perceptions, and dates from the year 200 AD.
The Christians accepted the marital ring, taken from the pagans, just because it was a symbol of the marriage commitment. This is also the reason why they did not wear big rings and on all fingers, like the pre-Roman Romans. The man gave his wife the ring and as a seal for the goods in his house. It was the woman who had the role of preserving the family's wealth.
Finally, the wedding ring begins to be used during the religious ceremony, somewhere in the first half of the fourth century. The fourth finger was chosen to wear the ring, as a symbol of love, considered "vera amoris", and the left hand was established due to the heart, located on the left side of the body. Thus, the ring finger, as it is known today, was considered as an extension of the heart. The custom has been taken from Christians by all peoples.
And yet, with the perpetuation of the divorce, the symbolism of the marriage began to decline, the urge "until death separates us" more and more of an empty phrase. Even so, there are still many couples for whom "the golden ring is still the one that binds the soul to Jesus Christ, a clean and holy character, true love, kindness and humility, which are the fruit of true Christianity, and thus our influence to be sure. anywhere in the world "- Peter and Paul.